tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6602797632310731803.post4919435777939731151..comments2023-07-05T04:04:27.849-07:00Comments on heart in the clouds: Don't get me wrong.Larahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14724675337980390322noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6602797632310731803.post-44847969280132220452010-07-29T16:15:07.673-07:002010-07-29T16:15:07.673-07:00I am so sorry for your loss. I've been lurking...I am so sorry for your loss. I've been lurking on your blog, but rarely comment because I feel like I have little to add beyond my sympathy, since I am lucky enough to not have experienced your horrendous grief. <br /><br />I can't believe people would say things like that to you, especially after reading your previous posts about Sally. Sally needs to get over herself. I feel bad complaining about the rougher parts of pregnancy because of ladies like you and a friend who had a late loss.... how shallow would I have to be to really care about stretch marks?<br /><br />I hope you know that you have more support and prayers from more parts of the world than I think you know. And that there are a lot of people disgusted with Sally and with everyone who would say such things to you.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00338015583215101693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6602797632310731803.post-69562728178262013892010-07-23T08:35:58.952-07:002010-07-23T08:35:58.952-07:00it's okay to be selfish, and totally understan...it's okay to be selfish, and totally understandable to have feelings of jealousy along with those of being happy for the other woman.<br /><br />i am so sorry for your loss...(unless someone has experienced the same, there is no understanding of the emotions we will always carry, so people will never truly be able to "get it")...i hope for you and your husband to be able to hold a healthy, full term baby in your arms one day soon.<br /><br />blessings to you.<br /><br />andreaAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16081240770654599827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6602797632310731803.post-70814078498542979752010-07-22T19:21:30.226-07:002010-07-22T19:21:30.226-07:00This was a great post, and I could not have explai...This was a great post, and I could not have explained it better myself. I lost our first child at 11w2d, and it really is amazing on how insensitive people really are.<br />Im so sorry for your loss, I wish no one ever had to experience this heartbreak.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14084272452669511515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6602797632310731803.post-28873362740561703392010-07-22T17:39:54.555-07:002010-07-22T17:39:54.555-07:00Wow people really are incredibly insensitive! I ju...Wow people really are incredibly insensitive! I just came across your story on Faces of Loss, Faces of Hope (I'm originally from the Sioux City, Iowa area)! We just lost our daughter to premature labor a little over three weeks ago I was 22wks 6days. I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss...it is a grief no mother should know. Thinking of you!rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06480554666969330506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6602797632310731803.post-83471568087854741352010-07-21T11:03:41.509-07:002010-07-21T11:03:41.509-07:00Please tell me that people are not insensitive eno...Please tell me that people are not insensitive enough to actually say the things in quotation marks at the beginning of this post. Because really, that is completely ridiculous to ask those things of you (the last two I'm sure meant well, though.)<br /><br />I would never suggest to someone that it was time to get over their loved one. Or a girl who lost her father to not get emotional watching a father-daughter dance. Or a person who has lost a mother or a baby to not feel that sting on Mother's Day. It's your flesh and blood that you had to say goodbye to--no parent should ever have to do that.<br /><br />I'm sorry we're in this heartbreaking club together. ((HUGS))MSChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10576390373925319237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6602797632310731803.post-92054693339248728462010-07-20T22:06:46.956-07:002010-07-20T22:06:46.956-07:00Lara you definitely put it in perfect writing. I d...Lara you definitely put it in perfect writing. I don't think I could have described it any better to someone who has not felt the loss of a baby. ((Hugs))Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11811352839352343105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6602797632310731803.post-51037581616098422662010-07-20T18:48:50.828-07:002010-07-20T18:48:50.828-07:00Lara. I love you.Lara. I love you.Temple & Nickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17087486423820118385noreply@blogger.com